Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Belly Dancing and Henna Classes

Not much of a dancer, and seriously lacking in the rhythm department, I was initially reluctant to sign up for belly dancing classes at the Sharjah Ladies' Club. Hearing how much fun it was, however, gave me the push that I needed to go ahead and give it a shot. Although I find many of the moves difficult to execute, I am having fun (and amusing my fellow classmates) trying. The music has a fantastic beat, is great to dance to, and the instructor - who moves so gracefully, and effortlessly - is fun to try and emulate. "What's the matter with you?" she jokingly chides me. "You're black! You're supposed to be born with natural rhythm." I jokingly reply, "I went to the restroom when God was handing out rhythm, and missed the beat."

With that said, what is a belly dancer without beautiful henna designs to adorn her graceful body as she swirls and sways to the pulsating Arabic beat?? Henna design is a tradition in both Arabic and Indian cultures. Both Indian and Arabic women have their bodies painted with elaborate and exotic designs prior to their wedding nights. I love the way that my young female students have their fingers, hands, arms, toes, feet, and legs covered in various henna decorations. They look soooo adorable! Although I am not the best at drawing henna designs, I have been improving bit by bit, and feel relatively comfortable applying simple henna decorations to females who are brave enough to let me experiment on them.


The picture of this flower is my very first attempt a creating a henna design on an actual person. The picture below is my second attempt. This time, the instructor had us draw our designs on our hands. My hand is the one on the left with the palm facing upwards.



Who knows, perhaps with practice, I'll become good enough to set up a small booth, and bring in a little extra income applying henna tattoos along the Venice Beach strip back home in sunny Southern California!

Friday, November 9, 2007

Ladies' Night Out



I first met Camille several months ago at the Sharjah Ladies' Club - the local women's only health and fitness spa and club. We were enrolled in a Pilates class together. Camille is an African American Muslim who is married to an Algerian man and has three adorable and rambunctious children. She has been living in the Emirates for about three years now. Stunningly beautiful with a million dollar smile, her bubbly and vivacious personality make her hilarious and great fun to be around.


She invited me to her belated birthday party (originally born in September, which is the Muslim holy month of Ramadan, she postponed the celebration until November), where I was introduced to several other American ladies who were married to local men and had been living in the Emirates for the past couple of decades.


Initially intimidated by the black abayas that the women were wearing, I was immediately put at ease as they revealed their wild, wacky, and stereotypically loud and funloving, American personalities. The evening turned out to be a blast, ending with Camille standing up and singing the song, "Dare to Love" from the opera, "Carmen Jones." She sang it so beautifully, everyone sat in awed silence, savoring every lyric. When she finished, the whole restaurant gave her a thunderous applause. My birthday's coming up soon, and I told Camille that I am looking forward to having her sing at my party as well.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Jordan: A Journey Back In Time...Part 3



Walking along the dusty, and bustling main road through Petra's centuries old ruins, I marveled at how such a magnificent city could be carved out of stone and rock without the assistance of modern day tools, machines, or technology! At first glance, it looked like an elaborate set from a Hollywood action adventure movie. Could Petra have been the inspiration for the Indiana Jones Temple of Doom attraction at Universal Studios, Hollywood? Perhaps! Concluding our two hour walking tour at the Petra museum, our guide thanked us, wished us an enjoyable holiday, waved goodbye, and disappeared into the crowd. Feeling both happy and exhausted, we unanimously concluded that we did not have the energy to travel another two hours to the monastery. Engaging in friendly banter, and rehashing the highlights of the tour, we embarked upon the hour long walk back to the main entrance.


Next and final stop: The Dead Sea. As we drove along the winding and newly paved mountain roads on our way to the Dead Sea, I experienced a mild sensation of deja vu. This was due to the fact that the rocky and mountainous desert terrain on my right, and the azure blue waters of the Dead Sea on my left, bared a slight resemblance to parts of the drive north along Pacific Coast Highway in California. Stopping to take a photo shoot of the Dead Sea from the bluffs on which we were standing, our driver pointed out the cities of Jericho, and Jerusalem, which appeared so far away, they were barely distinguishable without the aid of binoculars.

The Movenpick Resort, Aqaba, which is situated along the beach of the Dead Sea, was both elegant and spacious. After checking into the hotel at about 2:30 p.m., I made a last minute decision to take a tour of Jesus' baptismal site. One of my traveling companions had become ill with bronchitis after our tour of Petra, and feeling guilty about leaving her alone, I was hesitant to go. Assuring me that she would be alright, and that she was planning on spending our last day in Jordan sleeping and letting the medicine that she'd taken do it's job, I decided to try and make the last tour of the day, which was at 4:00 p.m.


It was already 3:15 p.m., as Mohamed, my driver, raced along the near empty highway to the tour's meeting spot, where about 20 other people waited anxiously for the hour long tour to begin. A large white open seated bus pulled up to the waiting area, and we all piled on like excited school children going on their first field trip. Upon exiting the bus, we were briskly greeted by our guide and lead along a narrow and dusty road past the Modern Orthodox Church dedicated to St. John the Baptist. We took a few quick photos of the church, and scurried along like squirrels behind our Muslim guide, whose accent was so thick, I could barely understand him. Our next stop was at Jesus' baptism site near the Jordan River . The water where Jesus was baptized from the river had dried up and receeded years ago. All that was left was a hole in the ground that resembled an open grave.

Our guide allowed us another brief photo shoot and urged us onward toward the Jordan River. Not only did it seem as though he was tired and anxious for the last tour of the day to end so that he could go home and relax, I got the impression that being Muslim, he wasn't the least bit interested in conducting a tour related to Christianity. Oh, how I longed to have a Christian guide conducting the tour! Venturing down to the Jordan River, we were permitted to briefly dip our hands and feet in the murky and muddy water, and then quickly rushed along the dusty narrow road back to the tour bus that was anxiously awaiting our arrival. Although I am happy to have had the opportunity to visit such a holy and spiritual place, I am disappointed that I was not allowed more time to reflect, meditate, and pray with my fellow Christians at this amazing site.

Still wallowing in frustration and dissatisfaction with my tour, I looked forward to finding solace and comfort floating in the salty waters of the Dead Sea. After Mohamed dropped me off at my hotel room, I quickly undressed and threw on my bathing suit, and followed Marian, my other travel companion, down to the seashore. Like a child playing in the mud, I slathered delicious, black mud (known for its medicinal qualities) from the Dead Sea all over my skin and raced down to the water. "Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!" I cried out as the rocky sea floor hurt my feet as I stumbled over them even though I was wearing shower shoes!. Undeterred, I plopped onto my back like a turtle that has been flipped over on its shell and floated. Ahhh!!!! Totally relaxed and marveling at the sun setting behind the hills of Israel/Palestine in the distance, I thought to myself, "What a fantastic ending to an exhausting day!"

BEEP! BEEP!! BEEP!! I was jolted from my state of bliss by the sound of the lifeguard's shrill whistle as he called for everyone to get out of the water. What the...?? It was 7 p.m. and the beach was closing!! Damn! I hadn't even been in the water for fifteen minutes! Not going to be rushed out the the water the way that I was rushed through the baptism site, I ignored him (he eventually left) and continued to lie there floating blissfully as the sun continued to set in the distance. Ahhh!! What a wonderful way to end both the day and my trip to Jordan...